On one side, I partially agree with the view point of some of the contemporary psychology counsellors when they say that no relationship or person in a rehabilitation center or a rehabilitation, plan for their drug addict or a narcissist partner or a spouse. Relationships are meant to be enriching and fulfilling rather than being challenging and demanding.
However, I don’t completely agree with this as it is always good to try to heal something before you decide to move on, quit and move away. Anything that could be fixed and repaired should not be replaced without even giving it a try. While I say this, I also insist that you seek professional help to handle this issue rather than trying out something on your own.
Refer the drug rehab directory of The Recover to locate a center that is the closest to you and book your appointment from their website. This is best way to start taking the help of the rehabilitation professionals. The Recover has a very good reputation and experience in handling addiction related issues and there are treatment centres across the United States.
Their website also has lots of information and resources and you can make use of the tips shared in the articles about different topics on dealing with addictions and make use of their support groups etc.
Some pro tips and dos and don’ts if you are helping your partner come out of addiction
Apart from keeping up with the treatment program and the therapy sessions, consider following these tips so that your treatment is additionally beneficial.
- Love, care and support is very essential for them but do not be surprised when I say that they need something a lot more than this – and it is nothing but the trust you have in them – the trust that they aren’t into this deliberately and will get over their addiction.
- Make sure to make them more confident about the fact that addiction is recoverable with their inner determination and professional help. Love and care may sometimes be misunderstood by them as sympathy and it may only worsen the situation and dampens their self-confidence.
- At times they tend to get preoccupied by confusion and self-doubt. In such situations, however frequent or infrequent that may be, be there to reassure whole heartedly.
- Do not discuss about the treatment sessions even if it is about their progress or improvements if they prefer privacy about their recovery process.
- Be wise when you give them financial support. Make sure you help them without putting their self-respect at stake.
Everyone deserves a second chance in life. Perhaps your spouse had become a victim to this unpleasant addiction just by chance, without realising its seriousness or due to some social pressure or whatever.
Therefore, now if they realise their mistake and want to come out of it, please do extend your complete love and support with a good non-judgmental understanding of their condition. This will definitely yield a good result.